He is not silent…on the contrary very polite telling me I am the one not accepting him and not listening when he says I love you. Do you think I should end it now? Sign In. I have endured around 10 years of poor communication between us.
Stay strong, calm and gracious. It concerns a new step mother who became pregnant after a 2 month relationship with my son who Silent treatment is very bad to your gay dating custodial parent of his 3 children, my grandchildren.
Reply Recently lost touch with someone I love. Anyway, after a holiday in thailand, she comes back and rings me 2 days after she comes back. Basically, it's a coward's way of ending a relationship. He has shown you how he intends to treat you — with silence not showing up. Having the silent treatment from someone you care about feels awful.
If you think you're shy, he will laugh at every lame attempt at a joke and tell you you should have been a comedian.
I would love to read more on the research this came out of. Aversive : unpleasant positive punishment. But strangely is okay for the third date? I felt like I needed to take a different approach this time.
Like leaving a trail of bread crumbs, breadcrumbing is when someone leads a romantic interest on. Those type of people are the ones that matter and the ones that are worth holding on to. Especially if there is eventual pleading from the other party. I wish he understood the pain he is afflicting on me.
During this time he works extra on days he usually would see me so I hadnt seen him in a month, although we spoke almost every day. Flattery like you've never heard before.